The short answer
Struggle with a mitzvah is normal and not, by itself, disqualifying. The tradition values consistent effort and growth; a community should help you work toward observance rather than expect instant perfection.
Why people ask this
People feel that repeated failure cancels their sincerity; the honest answer is that practice is a lifelong effort.
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Jewish perspectives
- Traditional: ongoing effort and growth are expected; perfection is not the bar.
- Communities ideally support your struggle rather than punish it.
Scholarly & historical context
The tradition's teaching that you 'are not required to finish the work, nor free to abandon it' frames lifelong effort.
What is agreed upon
Struggle is normal and expected.
Where the disagreement begins
How much struggle a community can hold.
Practical consequences
Bring your struggles to a teacher; do not hide them out of shame.
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